Tuesday, 14 June 2011

why, why, why

soooooo i am keeping myself busier then usual, i have changed my title from 'bum' to 'game programmer' that's right i have been programming a game with a friend of mine and it is kinda good i guess, i am getting better at python which is the programming language i am using which is also an language i have an exam in in a few weeks. On the other hand im not studying for exams that are coming sooner and that are worth more.

THE GAME CHEA

But being myself i don't really care, so whats most likely to happen is i will avoid doing it until sunday and then on sunday night ill freak out and  cram the study, then get at least a B+ in the exam. i know the first question is how do i do it, i don't know. i really don't know. The brain is a mysterious thing, and mine happens to be a sponge.... sometimes.

Anyway i was totally talking to some people i hate but i have to be nice to them for a few reasons and just makes me think about how important communication skills are, it doesn't matter how good you do at university or how smart you are if you aren't a likable person. The problem about this is its something people can't generally be taught.

I think the first thing to remember is sometimes you have to be nice to someone even though you want to break their neck. You should never act poorly towards someone if it would benefit you to treat them with respect. A perfect example was when i got my restricted and the asshole of a driving tester failed me for the most retarded reason, i knew it was no point arguing with him. What my sister said was that i she would have called him a cunt etc etc, but what i said was there was no real point because if i got him in my resit he will just hate me and fail me again. Its much better to sit there bend over and cop it, because the next time they happen to come across you they will like you better. the funny thing is that i resat my drivers test 30 mins later and he let me skip a majority of the test because i had already done it and because i was respectful.

He is dramatically thinking about Communication and its importance
The woman behind is inspired by his awesomeness

Acting kindly towards someone and being likable will always get you far, much further then any other skill would and its something that you really just have to get good at yourself. By all means you can act like a dick sometimes but just tread very carefully when you do. I mean i do it all the time and i shouldn't, it achieves nothing other then potentially screwing yourself over.

So really what i'm saying is be kind when you want to knock someone out, and more importantly learn how to communicate with all kinds of people, there are a few ways you can get people to like you that are quite immoral etc etc and use them, rationaliy > morality generally to a level of course. If you have to kill someone to benefit obviously that level of morality is rationality < morality. Trivial example but it portrays the point. anyhooo im done.

PEACE OUT